1 month old!

Already?! D and I are guessing that time seems to go by faster when you are sleep deprieved. That's the only way we can explain that a month has already gone by. I apologize for taking so long to post again. I admit that if I had a free minute I took a quick shower instead of posting pics. But, since they are a month old, it's high time I gave an update.

The boys are doing great. M is no longer yellow and didn't have to spend any time under the "bili-lights." They are both gaining weight well now, S more so than M. At 3 wks, S weighed 5 lbs, 10 oz and M was 6 lbs, 12 oz. S is trying hard to catch up. We actually didn't need to go to the dr this week. It was a relief to not get up early Thursday morning to take them to see the dr like we've done every Thursday plus a few other days since they were born. They do go back this week for their 1 mth (5 wk) checkup. I'm anxious to see how much they've grown. Both boys gave us some little smiles this week. Of course once you pull out the camera they stop smiling and look at this weird thing you're holding now. Oh well.

It's interesting to me to see how the boys interact/react with/to each other. You would think that someone screaming their lungs out 8 inches away from you would wake you up. But not with these guys. It actually seems the crying from one puts the other to sleep. If you pick up the crying one from the crib, within 30 seconds the other one is awake and crying. However, if both boys are awake and crying, they cry in unison. Their cries are the same and even take a breath at the same time. I had weekly heart rate monitoring during the last few months of my pregnancy, and every time the boys' heart rates would be in sync. One might go up, then the other would go up too. They always leveled out the same. Amazing.

As for the rest of us, it's a quest for daily survival. D has been pulling late nights studying and catching up with work. We're still up a few times during the night with the boys. One night they went 4 hrs between feedings and it was wonderful! Of course they woke up just 2 hrs later for the next feeding. I'm feeling so much better, only take a single dose of Motrin once in awhile, and took the kids for 2 long walks yesterday. I plan to attempt the driving thing soon. I'm ready to have some independence back. H is learning to budget her time with school - I give her assignments on Monday to be finished by Friday. So far she's plays a lot early in the week and then spends all day Friday stressing out. Hopefully we'll learn the value of not procrastinating. C is doing all he can to find some independence. Unfortunately that means doing his own thing and not what we want him to do. He's sweet, but definitely challenging right now. Big girl S has learned how to take her clothes off and spends 80% of the time naked. She constantly wants to put on clean clothes so that by the end of the day she has 16 dirty outfits of clothes. Like I don't have enough laundry to do already! So enough of the writing, time for pics.

Proud big brother!Sleeping in the cradle Grandaddy made.

We put the boys to bed parallel to each other probably 10-12 inches apart. This is how they were an hour later. Even swaddled they find a way to touch each other.

Proud big sis!

Easter morning

All 5 after Easter lunch at Outback. Remarkably, we ate our meals and no one cried the whole time!

S hates to wear dresses. She screamed for about half an hour when we insisted that she wear her Easter dress.

But give her some time to forget she's in a dress and she'll be happy again.
Baby toes - I just love baby feet!

Falling down tired

I guess that's what you call it when you try to get out of bed and your legs don't seem to obey what your brain is saying. We have reached a new level of exhaustion this week beyond any I've ever known (and I went to college!). However, we have made it through the first week with 5 children! Baby M and Baby S are doing well. Preemie twins do require a bit more doctor's appts, heel sticks, weight checks, etc. than full term babies. M's skin looked a little yellow at the beginning of the week which required quite a few trips to the dr for bilirubin checks. Each day we were waiting to hear if his number had reached 18. 18 would have required rehospitalization. Thankfully he hovered at 16 all week. The dr finally decided this must be his plateau, and we've been issued a reprive from heel sticks until next Thursday (if he doesn't look yellow next week he won't need one). It's a good thing too, poor M has about 8 marks on his heels! They both began an upward trend on their weights by Thursday which was another thing that kept us going back and forth to the dr.
Some things we've learned about our new boys this week - M is pretty stubborn. He will eat on his terms and will not be forced. He also seems to every once in awhile spit up through his nose! This, much to Mommy's dismay, causes him to stop breathing momentarily. But we've learned to handle it and thankfully it's only happened a few times. He also likes to wait and poop while you are changing his diaper. He likes baths, especially having his hair washed. Baby S is pretty easy going. He's great with an eating schedule, although I do believe he would eat any time he's offered. He also has an incredible set of lungs! Newborn diapers are a bit too big for his little body and we tend to change his clothes often. He hates baths. They both seem to have a brother radar and will wake up if we pick up the other one. Baby S will turn on his side so that he can touch M. It's really cute how much they want to be together.
The other three are adjusting pretty well for the most part. We've had a few more temper tantrums than usual (but I'm sure D and I will get a handle on our emotions once we've had a bit more sleep!). H is incredibly helpful when she's alone with me and the twins. Otherwise, there's a lot of arguing over who's going to help. C is just anxious to start teaching the boys about John Deere. Big S is obsessed that one of the boys is always spitting up.
As for me, I'm beginning to heal. My incision is still very tender and in fact painful depending on how many trips up the stairs and how much motrin I've taken that day. The most frustrating part for me now is my total dependence on others. I can't even lift big S up to use the potty. Driving is still weeks away. Standing and walking for more than 10 minutes at a time can make me want to sit for the rest of the day. D has one more week off of work. I'm thinking he'll be happy to get back to work so he can get some rest! So hopefully all of my insides will soon begin to feel like they are back on the inside. We thank you for your prayers for our family. Please continue to pray for the health of the boys, my recovery, D's incredible list of responsibilities with work, school, and home, the kids' adjustment, and of course, more sleep!